make a relationship work and last and anyone who has been
a part of one will completely agree. Even though most people
agree that they need to add a little special something, most
people really do not actually know what that special
something is.
There are plenty of things that a couple can do to strengthen
their bond in ways unimaginable and all they need is some
guidance. The purpose of that is exactly that, providing
couples with some extremely important tips that will
undoubtedly lead them down a road that depicts nothing but a
prosperous and happy future with your current or future
partner.
1. Hey honey how are you?
A tip that most couples overlook is calling your partner in the
middle of the day to simply say hello. This is a great gesture
that lets the other know the you are still thinking about them,
regardless of the fact that you just met each other a couple of
hours ago. Do not think of this as one of those calls that is
making sure that you are actually, where you are supposed to
be. One of the biggest problems with people is
miscommunication and not understanding the real meaning
behind certain behaviors. Therefore, it is vital that couples
look at certain things positively and consider them nice
gestures. Maybe you can even share a nice little laugh in
between the short call, because we all know how important
laughter can be for our health and relationship.
2. Communicate
While this may seem like a given, it’s amazing to me how
little time the average couples spends communicating. Of
course there is the usual chit chat and “how was your day
dear?” kind of banter but getting down to the heart of it, real
communication means infinitely more. If there is something
that has been bothering you or an area of the relationship that
is making you unhappy, simply ignoring it isn’t going to do
the trick. Its best when the other person in the relationship
knows these concerns so that you can work on a solution
together and hopefully keep the situation from getting out of
hand. Even if things are great in the relationship, spending
quality time discussing more in depth topics is a way for you
to channel and heighten your emotional intimacy.
3. Make Time For You
Too many times in relationships, couples forget that they need
their own space and end up compromising their own interests
which of course leads to unhappiness down the road. Of
course there is that beginning “honeymoon phase” in any
relationship where it seems that nothing else matters except
for the other person but…hate to be the bearer of bad news…
that part fades. But like everything else in life, change isn’t
always a bad thing. Relationships transition and once they do,
you will find yourself missing the friends, hobbies and other
activities that you may have momentarily cast aside.
Rediscover these interests and a little space will not only
improve your relationship but also allow you to enjoy the
things that make you who you are!
4. Complement One Another
It doesn’t matter if you have been together 10 weeks or 10
years, complements don’t get old. It’s all too easy to get drawn
into that lull of “comfort” (which is a great place to be) but
since you are not only best friends but lovers too, it’s
important to take the time to make each other feel special.
While many of us are quick to point out flaws, we aren’t as
quick to dish out complements. Take time to tell you partner
you appreciate them and help boost their strengths. Everyone
enjoys feeling like they have been recognized for all the good
they have done, whether this means making a wonderful
romantic dinner or spending 30 extra minutes to get ready to
go somewhere.
5. Get Somewhere Together
There is something magical about vacation. As kids we play in
the sand, frolic in the waves and go to bed exhausted and
happy. It’s important to take time out from the stress of work
or of raising a family and to reconnect in a new and exciting
place. No matter what your budget, set money aside for a
weekend getaway every now and then.
If a relationship consists of “all work and no play,” it’s one
that will have a relatively short shelf life. Yes, we are
creatures of habit but this doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy a
break from the routine ever now and again!
6. Compromise
At last, the one thing that seems so simple but really is hard to
master is the art of compromise. Nothing is harder than really
believing you are right and having to give up at least part of
your battle for the sake of the relationship. There is of course
a time to stand up for what you believe in and accept no less
than you deserve, but when it comes to maintaining a
harmonious relationship, a little bit of compromise can go a
long way.
7. A little compliment goes a long way
And lastly, don’t be afraid to complement one another. People
just don’t understand how much even a silly little compliment
can boost the morale of an individual. For example, tell your
man how great his handyman skills are, even if they aren’t,
but make sure that you sound serious enough so that he
doesn’t think that you are ridiculing him.
Trust me, if you can make your man believe that he is
unmatchable in handling that hammer or screwdriver he will
not only always be willing to fix things around the house, but
might actually turn into a real good handyman. These are
three simple tips that most people don’t pay attention to, but
can make all the difference in strengthening a relationship.
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