Many Nigerian ladies don’t consider a love affair with a married man as something improper. In fact, it is common to hear them claim that married men are the most caring of all lovers. No doubt, dating a married man could be so much fun, but lets consider some dangers dangers involved in such adventurous relationships.
1) He Will Never Love You Like He Loves His Wife
Many ladies find married men very interesting to date. Marred men are known to spoil their girlfriend with cash, gifts and affection. Some even go as far as abandoning their wives and children while engaging in extra marital affairs. Bu hay lady, don’t be fooled by the love and affection he is showing you. The truth is 90% of married men love their wives dearly, most of them engage in extra marital affairs for the fun of it and will do anything to protect their wives and children.
Besides what makes you think that a man would suddenly fall out of love with a woman who has been married to him for years, taken care of him when his was sick, raised children together with him, and have made several sacrifices for him. Then after she has done all this you think you would come and do better than her.
Please think again, after eating the honey comb your married boyfriend would start seeing you as a trespasser and a thief that has come to rob him of his family happiness. Ladies please shine your eyes life is not a Nollywood film where the girlfriends always have the upper hand. In reality; stand between a married man and his family and you may end up 6 feet under. He will never leave his wife for you.
2) He Sees You As An Object To Satisfy His fantasies
Many ladies wondered why their married boyfriends who once appeared caring and loving suddenly change and become cruel. Well the truth is married men engage in extra-marital affairs for the s**x alone and nothing more. While s**x with a married man could be so adventurous and exciting.
For the married man, it is an escape from the boring routine of marriage life, don’t get it twisted, you remain a tool for s**xual gratification and when its all over he will return to a wife he said he was going to leave to be with you. He goes back to the love of his life while you remain single and alone.
Then you may hatch the plan to get pregnant for him so as to keep him. This is a death sentence, research has shown that 98% of married men would go to any length to terminate a pregnancy from a girlfriend, even the noblest men could commit murder in this regard. Why? Because been pregnant does not change the fact that you were their s**x object. They won’t even mind committing murder if it serves as a quick fix to an unwanted pregnancy
3) Dating A Married Man Never Has A Happy Ending
The problem with ladies who date married men is that most of them foresee a future where there is none. They keep on hoping that one day the man would leave his happy family and come live with them. They envisage a happily ever after where there is sadly ever after. There are only three endings in an extramarital affair and none of them looks good: Its either your married boyfriend kills you; you kill him or his wife kills you. Be warned a jealous wife would kill to protect a foolish husband.
4) You Stand A 90% Chance Of Been Attacked By A Crazed Wife
Some time ago I heard of a woman who attacked her husband girlfriend in a bar and stripped her naked, though the alleged girlfriend was on her period she was beaten blue – black and made to dance while the husband ran away on sighting his wife.
This is just one of many stories of girls suffering humiliation for dating married men. The dangers involved are much, you stand a 70% chance of been attacked by his wife. Nothing hurts a woman more than when she finds out that her husband has been sleeping with another woman. The fact is a woman never blames her cheating husband for his infidelity.
She sees him as a helpless man who was seduced by a desperate home breaker. A married woman will go to any length to protect her marriage, acid attack, hiring of thugs and in some cases hired assassins are some of the many options at her disposal and even the most gentle woman could become a vampire when it comes to dealing with a home breaker.
In a country like Nigeria where acid can be gotten from the road side mechanic and an assassin can be hired for a loaf of bread, why endanger your life? An encounter with a married woman never ends well, even if she kills you, her husband will still stand by her.
5) It Is Not A Matter Of If, It Is A Matter Of When You Will Be Caught
Many ladies allow themselves to be fooled by the thoughts that their secret relationship with a married man would never be exposed. What a wishful thinking. A crazed wife who suspects her husband of cheating will go to any length to unearth the truth. She is very observant and can detect the slightest change in her husband’s behavior. A suspecting wife is more determined than the FBI, CIA or any security agency in arriving at the truth and when she does you are a goner.
I would never forget what a man revealed to me in a bar in Festac. He said after been duped by his business partner, he and his wife began planning how to assassinate the man who duped him. According to him, 3 days before the plot was carried out, the supposed target came begging. That was how the plot was dropped. As chilling as his story was, I learnt that his wife has an eagle eye. Always on the lookout to protect their huge wealth and would go any length to do so. She also knows very step her husband makes, knows his friend his associates and all. Dating the husband of such a desperate house wife is as sure as crossing the express road with your eyes closed.
2) He Sees You As An Object To Satisfy His fantasies
Many ladies wondered why their married boyfriends who once appeared caring and loving suddenly change and become cruel. Well the truth is married men engage in extra-marital affairs for the s**x alone and nothing more. While s**x with a married man could be so adventurous and exciting.
For the married man, it is an escape from the boring routine of marriage life, don’t get it twisted, you remain a tool for s**xual gratification and when its all over he will return to a wife he said he was going to leave to be with you. He goes back to the love of his life while you remain single and alone.
Then you may hatch the plan to get pregnant for him so as to keep him. This is a death sentence, research has shown that 98% of married men would go to any length to terminate a pregnancy from a girlfriend, even the noblest men could commit murder in this regard. Why? Because been pregnant does not change the fact that you were their s**x object. They won’t even mind committing murder if it serves as a quick fix to an unwanted pregnancy
3) Dating A Married Man Never Has A Happy Ending
The problem with ladies who date married men is that most of them foresee a future where there is none. They keep on hoping that one day the man would leave his happy family and come live with them. They envisage a happily ever after where there is sadly ever after. There are only three endings in an extramarital affair and none of them looks good: Its either your married boyfriend kills you; you kill him or his wife kills you. Be warned a jealous wife would kill to protect a foolish husband.
4) You Stand A 90% Chance Of Been Attacked By A Crazed Wife
Some time ago I heard of a woman who attacked her husband girlfriend in a bar and stripped her naked, though the alleged girlfriend was on her period she was beaten blue – black and made to dance while the husband ran away on sighting his wife.
This is just one of many stories of girls suffering humiliation for dating married men. The dangers involved are much, you stand a 70% chance of been attacked by his wife. Nothing hurts a woman more than when she finds out that her husband has been sleeping with another woman. The fact is a woman never blames her cheating husband for his infidelity.
She sees him as a helpless man who was seduced by a desperate home breaker. A married woman will go to any length to protect her marriage, acid attack, hiring of thugs and in some cases hired assassins are some of the many options at her disposal and even the most gentle woman could become a vampire when it comes to dealing with a home breaker.
In a country like Nigeria where acid can be gotten from the road side mechanic and an assassin can be hired for a loaf of bread, why endanger your life? An encounter with a married woman never ends well, even if she kills you, her husband will still stand by her.
5) It Is Not A Matter Of If, It Is A Matter Of When You Will Be Caught
Many ladies allow themselves to be fooled by the thoughts that their secret relationship with a married man would never be exposed. What a wishful thinking. A crazed wife who suspects her husband of cheating will go to any length to unearth the truth. She is very observant and can detect the slightest change in her husband’s behavior. A suspecting wife is more determined than the FBI, CIA or any security agency in arriving at the truth and when she does you are a goner.
I would never forget what a man revealed to me in a bar in Festac. He said after been duped by his business partner, he and his wife began planning how to assassinate the man who duped him. According to him, 3 days before the plot was carried out, the supposed target came begging. That was how the plot was dropped. As chilling as his story was, I learnt that his wife has an eagle eye. Always on the lookout to protect their huge wealth and would go any length to do so. She also knows very step her husband makes, knows his friend his associates and all. Dating the husband of such a desperate house wife is as sure as crossing the express road with your eyes closed.
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