Saturday 28 March 2015

May D Singer allegedly beats his baby mama frequently


Popular Ile Ijo singer May D whose real name is
Mayokun Awodumila allegedly beats up his baby mama
Debola.
Debola who is the mother of May D's 2-year-old son
Olamipoju sent Linda Ikeji a tell-all email about the
domestic violence she suffered by the hand of May D.
Read it here:
"My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you
put me on ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian
artist name on my body, I’m MayD’s baby Mama… I
haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some
important things that I feel people should know. I will try
to make my story as short as possible.
I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were
together from the get-go, before his career began and
when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I
stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported
him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then
when I was in Babcock we passed through loads of
hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable
of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting
him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him
a semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I
stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?I
practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The
sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I
did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to
cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities
for and started to do diligently..
Now, like most relationships we had major problems which
included the frequent cheating and escapades with girls
which I obviously endured as I was consumed by the
“main chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good
thing in return, he never for one day acknowledge me, or
made me feel like we were in a relationship together. I
had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be it
business, friendship etc.
The thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat
me up at every slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up
like a man, he beat me up so badly infront of our little boy
all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered
domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me
up so badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right
infront of me. I witnessed been close to death, I prayed to
survive each time he pounced on me, damaging several
properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.
This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself,
who will take care of my child for me if I die in his
hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand by him?
So I left the relationship hurriedly without thinking of
how much time, energy, resources that must have been
wasted….

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